In November 2022, a Reddit user shared a troubling tale about her relationship on the “Off My Chest” forum. Engaged for eight months, she and her fiancé, Ryan, seemed headed for bliss. However, as wedding plans progressed, Ryan’s peculiar request surfaced: he suggested she avoid wearing a white dress, which left her puzzled.

Despite initial dismissal, she purchased a white dress two weeks before the wedding, anticipating joy. Ryan’s reaction, though, was explosive upon learning its color, claiming white was for “pure” brides only. His fixation on her past and insistence on a red dress fueled arguments, even involving his mother, who sided with her. The tension shattered her trust in Ryan and their future together.

Following their breakup, she sought advice on her first date in years, leaning on the Reddit community’s support. Many suggested she wear red as a symbol of moving forward.

Was leaving Ryan the right decision? Her story suggests it was, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and acceptance in any relationship.