A North Carolina mom has sparked a debate online by openly monitoring her kids’ phones, arguing that since she pays for them, she has the right. Laura Muse, 41, believes it’s crucial to ensure her 15-year-old son and 17-year-old daughter are safe from online dangers like predators and inappropriate content. She routinely confiscates their phones at night to promote healthy sleep and checks them periodically, citing parental responsibility.

Muse defends her actions, stating, “I own their phones; I pay for the phones. I can go through them whenever I want.” Despite criticism over privacy invasion, she emphasizes her role in safeguarding her children. Her vigilance has occasionally revealed issues like her son posting inappropriate photos, which she addressed as teachable moments.

As a mental health clinician, Muse trusts her kids but remains vigilant. She believes her approach helps balance freedom with protection, fostering open discussions about online behavior. The mom’s methods have divided opinions online, with supporters applauding her vigilance and critics questioning her level of trust in her children.